Is It Time to Leave Your Job?

I received a message from an e-group of which I am a member and wanted to share it with you all. Hope you like it.

As we move past Eid Celebrations, Thanksgiving and now Christmas and into the New Year, it is often a time when we start making lists of the pros and cons of the jobs we have. The end of one year and the start of a New Year is the time when just about everyone takes stock of where they are with their work, and whether they are where they expected to be.

So if you would like to make a wish list for your career, ask yourself these five questions about your company, your colleagues, and your personal game plan for what comes next.

1. Does my company stand for something — anything — special?

It’s hard to be thrilled with your job if the company you work for is struggling to succeed, or feels stuck and irrelevant. I’m not talking about obvious problems — red ink and layoffs. I mean the nagging sense that the company will never be anything more than OK, just another ho-hum player in its field. In this hyper-competitive age, you can’t do great things as a company if you’re just a little better than everybody else. Does the company you work for really stand out from the crowd? If not, why on earth are you working there?

2. Am I excited to see my colleagues when I show up for work at the start of the week?

Lots of people sign on with a company because it’s got a cool reputation, or it’s prestigious, or it’s got a great stock price. But quickly you realize that “working for” a company is an abstraction. The reality is that you work with the people closest to you — those in your department, in your unit, in your region. Most experts say that over the long term, employees aren’t loyal to a company as a company. They are loyal to the people they work beside day after day. Can you imagine not spending 40 or 50 hours a week with the people you work beside every day? If so, maybe it’s time to make a move and fine a group of colleagues who stimulate you and motivate you.

3. Do I have a voice at work — does anyone who matters listen to what I say?

There’s nothing more depressing and demotivating than feeling that you don’t matter as a person — even if you’re part of a group that’s working well in a company that’s doing fine. In this age of participation and communication, people are hungry for a say, a voice, a sense that their opinion counts. If you feel like your opinion doesn’t count, maybe it’s time to find a company where it does.

4. Am I learning as fast as the world is changing?

I first heard this question from strategy guru Gary Hamel, and I ask it of myself all the time. In a world that moves so fast, the most dangerous thing in anyone’s career is the sense that you’re standing still — that you’re not learning, that you’re not being challenged, that you’re stuck. If that’s how you feel, that’s a strong sign that it’s time to make a change.

5. Am I making enough money?

Strange as it sounds, this is the worst reason to leave a job. Virtually every study I’ve seen shows that there’s almost no connection between how much money you make and how satisfied you are with your job. There really are things that money can’t buy — and happiness at work is one of them.

I hope that you enjoyed reading this note and that it may have given you pause for thought. Another way to read it of course is to say that if you answered “yes” to a lot of these questions, then maybe it is better to stay in the role that you are currently in than move.

Here, I would like to share a secret : The first four ( and precisely in that order) were the reasons for me to opt for my recent change in career. Money (package ) did not matter much.

As we head into the New Year I want to wish you all the very best for the upcoming year both personally and professionally.

Tees Maar Khan – Are you serious, Farah Khan?

(A Review by Swarnagauri Tonse)

I came out of the theatre with the what-the-hell-was-that expression. I still couldn’t figure the movie out. Tees Maar Khan, for me, was another of the mindless comedies which have become just too frequent in bollywood (though dad tells me it was a hundred times better than golmaal 3). I really feel bad that Farah Khan disappointed me, because TMK neither had the style nor the entertainment which Main Hoon Na and Om Shanti Om promised AND provided. I thoroughly enjoyed her two previous ventures. I felt like crying towards the end of TMK. And not in a good way.
Tees Maar Khan is the story of a con man Tabrez Mirza Khan aka Tees Maar Khan(Akshay Kumar) who repeats the cheesy one liner ‘Tawaif ki lutati izzat ko bachana, aur tees maar khan ko kaid karna – dono bekaar hai’ over and over again. Well, you get the point. He cannot be captured. Etc. So in the film he gets captured in Paris in the beginning, escapes the police in the plane in a cringeworthy overly non-realistic way, strikes a deal with the Johri brothers (Siamese twins who are antique robbers) to rob a train which carries 10,000 kg of antique stuff with the condition that he gets 50% of the moolah, and comes up with an ingenious(NOT) plan to do it. The plan involves faking a film shooting in a village near the railway tracks and fooling the villagers into stealing the stuff for him. He even fools a famous bollywood superstar, Aatish Kapoor(Akshaye Khanna), into working in the fake film by guaranteeing an Oscar for him. In the process of the fake shooting hamare tees maar khan unintentionally does good things, then intentionally does good things, then gets caught, and escapes again.
TMK is a no-brainer sans a story with substance, and is just a couple of cheesy jokes loosely strung together. Therefore it is hardly impressing. And such a film coming from Farah Khan makes it more pathetic. You know a movie is messed up when a heroine who is just meant to be a background showpiece actually does much better than the hero. Akshay Kumar’s performance made me facepalm throughout the movie. It was as if he was beating us with a stick and forcing us to laugh. Akshaye Khanna didn’t have much to do really, but he was good. Katrina Kaif was brilliant. I think this was the first time I actually loved Katrina’s performance in any movie. She saved it, really. And the only high point of the movie was ‘Sheila ki Jawani’ which sadly got over early in the movie(I think it was the first song of the movie, not sure) and Katrina was undoubtedly hot in that. Raghu and Rajeev as the Siamese twins were good too, but then I can’t judge because they hardly did anything. Everybody else gave a fine performance.

Overall it was a mediocre movie. If I were to rate it out of 5, I would give it 2. Watch it only if you are bored. Nay, I say getting bored is better.

P.S. I would like to specially mention the well-shot end credits where the cast and crew are presented with fake oscars. Everybody looked good in that, especially Twinkle Khanna. That was one of the two places where the movie was worth it(the other being sheila ki jawani, of course)

P.P.S. Aatish Kapoor DOES win an oscar in the end. Go figure.